Optimist: someone who figures that taking a step backward after taking a step forward is not a disaster, it's a cha-cha. ~Robert Brault
Saturday, May 2, 2015
Wednesday, March 4, 2015
We're All One of a Kind: Let's Ace It!
I was dealt a smooth ACE skipping around social media today...
Here's how a social media scan typically goes:
90% 》scroll
5% ×check/like/comment/scrap
3% >>share w/friend/social media/self
2% >>>Jump around site, intrigued
Sound about right?
I clicked an article about anxiety on Twitter, being highly relevant (eek!). I instantly fell into the author's personal raw admission and epiphany. Turns out, the author Hayden is an Aspie with a personal mission. He and a partner teamed up to support Aspies and coach them to self/life success. Further research (jumping around site!) needed, but I truly admire his heartfelt writing style and positive approach. From casual scan, they offer coaching services and paid video webinars (ages14+), as well as a host of helpful tips, Aspie-directed inspiring blog posts and free webinars on their site. Way to pay it forward, Asperger Experts!
I'd like to share Hayden's blog post that moved me emotionally, then compulsively (acceptance! hehehe) to share. Well done!
http://www.aspergerexperts.com/social/one-of-a-kind/
Recalls to mind this delightful Dr. Seuss quote, a favorite. Happy Birthday, Dr. Seuss!
No one is
You-er
Than YOU!
Bravo, Asperger Experts, Hayden. Your fresh message was worth exploring...and sharing! Thanks for the hope and guidance you offer to the Autism Community. :)
More info: www.aspergerexperts.com
Celebrate your quirks
Celebrate your strengths
Celebrate your YOU-nique-ness!
(Perky)
Thursday, January 29, 2015
Autism Hacks #7
Joyful morning "welcome to bus stop!" chat with a new neighbor, I attempted to look casual in my acronym maelstrom.
Through our frosty car windows, across G - in full Michigan snow gear, plus foot deep backpack - shihtzu Cookie scratching to jump out...
Eeeeeeeeeeee! Verbal squeak phase. ASD ADHD oral sensory, check.
Carb Crave CSI Catastrophe, location of Swedish Fish stash comprimised. Asperger's/OCD, check.
Swimming wiggling Swedish Fish out in the frigid air. ADHD, check.
Sharky devouring of schools of them. ASD oral carb crave smashing sensory, check.
Ceaselessly citing fish facts. ASD + OCD, check.
Teasing the dog out the window with said fish. OCD, check.
Getting his stim on. ASD, check.
Sputtering "hello" to neighbor on command through gummy red hot mess. Sensory ick, check.
Forgetting gloves. ADD, check.
Being so overloaded he can't verbalize his need. Anxiety, check.
Using his eyes to guide me to his gloves. Tools, check.
Flagging down the driver who missed him. Tools in high gear, check.
Ready for school? Yikes!
Dear kind laughing neighbor, amazingly cool bus driver, G's busmates, schoolmates, Awesome Au-some teacher extraordinaire, and my G:
You rock! Breakfast dessert of champions, not. Blame me. I made my choice in our morning panic (while smiling, asking neighbor about their newborn, wishing I wasn't wearing my teen's ski hat). G hunted out my sugar stash and chomped away (really only about 3, Chewy = slow BONUS!)
"ASD Eyes", our parental ASD filtering system, see all.
Sometimes we must pick our fish to fry. :/ Better to send G off with a happy flappy Swedish Fishface than an angry frustrated Stinkface.
Good Luck! ♡
Love,
De-fish-ent ASD Parent
w/sense of humor
P.S. New neighbor, welcome to the hood! You're in for an education by default. :)
Wednesday, January 14, 2015
Autism Hack #1
Welcome Autism Hacks!
I'm kicking off a new series part of my New Year's resolution to lighten spirits, bring giggles, joy to ASD Social Media.
Share your quirks:
Submit photos, stories, ideas and I'll whip up a meme with creds. :)
patticakeb2002@yahoo.com
Friday, October 11, 2013
Get Your Quirks On!
Families and caregivers touched by special needs/autism need a perky party! Find your happy place. Share your priceless stories, photos, videos, drawings, parody, someecards, sound bytes, creations... of quirky FUN!
Facebook special needs pages and groups are full of info, news, questions, trauma, heartbreak, fear, help, sharing, caring and love. I love all of it. I couldn't cope without my precious Facebook support in my isolated world.
But, what's missing? Laughs! A sweet spot to share our playful, adorable, gleeful, zany treasured stories.
Or post it to Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/pages/All-in-a-Days-Quirks/111116812270654
Necessary Warnings: